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Thursday 15 September 2011

Sooo...You think You are Having a Bad Day.....Think Again...




So you think you are having an off day.....

“You think this is just another day in your life? Its not just not another day. Its the ONE day that is given to you – today. It’s given to YOU. It’s a gift. And the only appropriate response, is gratefulness.”
If you sometimes forget to appreciate life and nature you’ve got to watch Louie Schwartzberg’s TEDx presentation. After spending decades of filming the infinite beauty that effortlessly surround us, this award-winning cinematographer presents his visually stunning project “Happiness Revealed” – a film of unforgettable scenery accompanied by two special perspectives on why we MUST SEE our surroundings…





Wednesday 14 September 2011

Want to start your own business.....watch this video!!


Have you been procrastinating about starting up a MEGA business....Well  why not start small? Though most of us imagine that to start up your own business you need loads of money, entrepreneur Derek Sivers will tell you otherwise. He’d say there’s no funding needed. “Starting small puts 100% of your energy on actually solving REAL problems for REAL people.” It lays the foundation of understanding the wants and needs of the customers around you. And if its anyone you’ll want to be pals with, it’s your customers. Check out this short animated clip of Derek’s genius insight on starting a budding business











Monday 12 September 2011

12 Tips to avoid Unnecessary Hassle!!


12 Golden Rules for Living

by Unknown
  1. If you open it, close it.
  2. If you turn it on, turn it off.
  3. If you unlock it, lock it up.
  4. If you break it, admit it.
  5. If you can’t fix it, call in someone who can.
  6. If you borrow it, return it.
  7. If you value it, take care of it.
  8. If you make a mess, clean it up.
  9. If you move it, put it back.
  10. If it belongs to someone else, get permission to use it.
  11. If you don’t know how to operate it, leave it alone.
  12. If it’s none of your business, don’t ask questions.

Monday 5 September 2011

Are you being HELD BACK BY FEAR? Find out...

1)Do you find that you spend too much time looking BACK on past failures?

2) Do you find yourself PANICKING and feeling an overwhelming sense of uncertainty when facing       CHANGE?

 3)Do you tend to spend more time AVOIDING, running away from or hiding from FEAR?

 4) When you are worried do you tend to DISTRACT yourself and not face it?

 5) Do you become as OSTRICH when things aren't going well?

 6) Do you fight and RESIST fear?

 7) Does worry about the FUTURE lock you into your own private hell of endless “WHAT IFS” or “WHAT NEXTS” ?

 8) When you feel AFRAID OF FAILURE do you start hedging bets or planning EXITS?

 9) Do you procrastinate about making decisions if you are UNSURE of the outcome?

 10)Are you constantly worrying about the FUTURE unable to stay PRESENT in life as it is right NOW?

 11)Do you make EXCUSES or find reasons not to follow through on new OPPORTUNITES?

 12)Do you constantly look to the PAST before being able to make decisions in the PRESENT?

 13)Do you struggle TRUSTING your partner in relationships BOTH personal and in business?

 Sooo.....What Do YOU Do When You Feel AFRAID?

a) Do you fall into the fetal position, FROZEN by THE FEAR OF FAILURE?

b) Do you try to avoid feeling fear by PRETENDING IT S NOT HAPPENING?

c) Are you the kind of person who gets ANNOYED AT EVERYONE in your way, determined to FIGHT your way through your fear?


 Well in actual fact, it really doesn’t matter WHAT you do when you feel afraid...because......

 Your RESISTANCE Only Serves To BUILD On Fear’s PERSISTANCE!


 Sooo.....Let me explain by asking you one quick question...

 

Have you ever REALLY thought about what it costs you to play all these little cat and mouse games with fear? 

(I’m not talking about the fear of heights, clowns, small spaces, spiders or other phobias which although they’re all VERY real.... these are NOT the fears that keep you from the life your heart knows you deserve!)

 The fears I’m talking about, are every day little worries that creep up on you.

At first they seem harmless. Then they keep coming and coming. 

Soon it's a full on ASSAULT - stalking you CONSTANTLY - minute by minute, day by day, slowly hijacking your life!

The problem is - you dont even realise it's even happening..

Until..... it's too late... And you end up with FEAR as Your Constant Companion !
 It doesn’t matter if you choose to avoid, ignore, deny or fight your fear - it’s still there with you EVERY single day... whether you know it or not!

SOOOO.......Don't you think it's become a little too easy for you to blame your problems on YOURSELF?

By this I mean saying to yourself things like...

I can't get a new job because I am "UNMOTIVATED".


I can't lose that last stone because "I AM EXHAUSTED”
 

I can't find the courage to go on a date because "I AM TOO SHY".
Or maybe you're even are harder on yourself with thoughts like "I'M DEPRESSED", "I'M LAZY" or "THAT S JUST NOT ME!! ”

And guess what - it's COMPLETE AND UTTER RUBBISH!!! 

But more than that......

It's TRAGIC...



Yes - it's a complete TRAGEDY that you believe any of this NONSENSE about you! 



As if the REAL you could EVER be anything but AMAZING!!!!!!!!!!

 


FEAR is nothing more than a BULLY holding your happiness in a tight grip

 Soooooo......dont let it CONTROL you every single day..

Have you ever wanted something so BADLY you would've SWAPPED almost anything to have it, then all of a sudden, for no reason, it gets TAKEN AWAY FROM YOU!!

Devastated by DEFEAT you don't even really hear the tiny voice of fear whisper quietly, "I told you so! This is what happens when you put yourself out there. You know you aren't GOOD enough and don't DESERVE these type of things - why do you EVEN try?"

Meanwhile you barely notice DEPRESSION and ANXIETY sneaking up on you.....

 Or....have you ever been so afraid to be ALONE that you stayed in an emotionally abusive relationship - dying to leave but terrified you'll never find someone who will really love you...

 Do you sometimes feel like you're trapped in a HOLE you can't dig yourself out of every time you stress out on how to make ends meet this month? As the pounds disappear from your bank account, your CONFIDENCE crumbles!

 Well....take note.....

YOU Are NOT Your Fear!!

 The truth is you're LYING to yourself if you see you as anything but AMAZING!!



 Soooo.....If you can't see the TRUTH of who you are, you MUST change your filter NOW!

Before it's too late...

Before your dreams disappear...



Soooo.....Before you GIVE up, calling yourself nothing but a lost cause - you must know the truth!

....

You don't have to "FIGHT" fear - because...there’s NOTHING to “BEAT”...

.

All you need to do is learn to play the game with a different set of rules starting with knowing fear is NOT a filter for truth - it's only a pathway to CHANGE.

Fear can actually HELP you as long as you know how to separate WHO you are from WHAT you're feeling - they are NOT the same thing! 



To do this, you must step up by OPENING your eyes.

And you must start actively PARTICIPATING in your life.

Because if you dont, you will continue to let your fear define, defeat or even worse CONTROL you...


Soooooo......What if you could see your fear as nothing more than a mind supported global positioning system (GPS) like you use in your car?

 

Now let's pretend this GPS system is PERSONALIZED with your BELIEFS and VALUES - giving you the best navigation system EVER built - for your LIFE!!.

 (Wouldnt that be great!!) 

Well guess what?...that's all FEAR IS SUPPOSED TO BE - your PERSONAL GPS!

Feelings of fear are actually designed to HELP you - to steer you back on track.

Fear is simply trying to say...... " This is important! Are you really UP to this because I don't know where you're going all of a sudden - I'm not sure we can DO this. Maybe we should turn around and go home?" 



It begins a CAMPAIGN designed to CONVINCE you by REMINDING you of all the times you've FAILED in the PAST because you weren't good enough. 
And what do we do??? We believe it! 
We
actually let fear terrorise our minds into thinking we should swim back SAFELY to shore - to the SAFETY of what we know. 

 But there's only one problem...

Your current beach front property isnt working out for you is it? 

(Which is probably why you were trying a new approach in the first place.)



So there you are ...... trying to make a change while fear is SCREAMING in your face, "No change! CHANGE is SCARY!! I'm not sure we can handle change! "



Your mind grabs onto this fear frequency - not sure if it's up to the task -and it uses your FEAR to talk you into going back to the "comfort" zone.

You see the STRANGE thing is that our mind doesn't care if staying put means you'll continue to be alone, broke or despondent! 

(Especially if your belief system says that's what you deserve.).

It just wants to do what's EASY.

TRY and 

think about it like this...

Have you ever used a GPS to get you to your destination and left the planned route because there's an accident or just bad traffic?

 As the GPS voice harps at you to make a u-turn back to the guided route, do you do it? 

No. You're CONFIDENT in your choice.

You just think, "Yeah, yeah, I know I'm off track - but I REALLY DO know how to get there.

 Well....that's all FEAR is supposed to do...it's there to GUIDE you - that's it!



 It s just like the annoying voice in your car... keeping you on track. Your fear signals to you when a pathway of real CHANGE has been opened up right in front of you.

Resisting, avoiding or fighting fear only serves as a.DISTRACTION!

By giving fear ENERGY you are choosing to give it the ENERGY from YOUR LIFE

 - until you’re nothing but an empty shell of your true potential1

Think about it...



Is it really laziness or a lack of motivation that keeps you from the job you want or the date of your dreams...



 Or is it the FEAR of REJECTION?

 

Do you sabotage the growth you so desperately desire because you can't make DECISIONS...?

Or is it because you're AFRAID to make the wrong one - terrified to FAIL?

 

Are you trapped in old shattered patterns that stopped serving you long ago because you hate CHANGE...

 

Or do you believe this is as good as it gets and it's all you deserve?

 

I don't know which one applies to you - maybe all of them... 

But I DO know keeping fear as your constant companion - in any capacity - means you're basically handing over the keys to your life, making it impossible for you to embrace new POSSIBILITES!

 

Soooooo.....Imagine USING FEAR AS YOU OWN PERSONAL CRYSTAL BALL ......

 The crystal ball is guiding you towards the best possibilities for your best life.. .



IMAGINE feeling that first flutter of fear...and SMILING.!!!

 That's right - can you imagine WELCOMING FEAR with the open arms AND feeling glad that you're MOVING - GROWING and making progress...

Can you imagine if you could really use the POWER of fear to free yourself up?

 

Sooo..... this time with COMPASSION and empathy for YOU, look back to your own life and ask yourself these questions.....



Is the FEAR OF FAILURE keeping you from the financial freedom you deserve? 


Is the fear of being laughed at, or ending up worse off than you are right NOW holding you back from finding your true vocation or soul mate?


Are you exhausted by constantly trying to avoid or eliminate your fears?
Is the stress of “FIGHTING” through it beginning to take it's toll on your soul? 



Then STOP!!!! -

RESISTING fear is the number one reason you're not succeeding!



 You can stop the madness and change everything if you quit RESISTING!!


 Sooo......

Are you finally ready to...


 Tap into the POWER of your fears and transform your life into a world of freedom, fulfillment and UNLIMITED happiness....

 Let fear lead you to a new possibility and potential, EVERY time.

Welcome CHANGE as an OPPORTUNITY for GROWTH.

Ride the wave to break through to an AMAZING YOU!

Well why not CREATE TIME FOR YOUR LIFE and  take the first steps TODAY...

Take a look at all these ideas closely...

And remember.... .if you have difficulty with changing the way you THINK or you would like some help in moving forwards....talk to a life coach....we can really help.....


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